It almost doesn’t matter if you believe them or not at the beginning, the very act of saying them in your head and drowning out the inner critic will make you believe them.Initially you’ll have to make a real conscientious effort to do this, but with practice it will get easier and easier.
Alternately, select a new place that sounds fun and exciting, but you’ve never been to before.
That’s quantum physics in a nutshell—like attracts like, and we get back what we give.
So if you want a love life that is meaningful, exciting and whole-hearted, you need to live as though that energy already exists within you (it does!
However, this kind of self-confidence is something that any man can acquire. Once you get this engine going, it’s basically going to start running itself. Spend some time thinking about exactly what it is that you want to get out of a night out at the club.
So how do you become the kind of confident man that you’ve always wanted to be when you’re shy? This will help you to direct any actions you might take.